Tuesday, November 11, 2008

S.O.S

ATTENTION! MY FRIEND WHO IS TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS HAS ASKED FOR YOUR ADVISE!

she seems to think that she is invisible to boys. she has a crush on this one guy that totally ignores her. (yes they do know each other they went to elementary school together). She seems to think that she is a wallflower and flying under guys radar. Her crush seems to be all the more interested in this other girl and this anonymous girl seems to think she is nothing compared to this girl. She wants to know if you guys have any advise for her.
post your advise! maybe she will listen to what you say since shes not listening to me!

Thanks
-Megs

3 comments:

Car! said...

Your friend is in a sticky situation! I recommend that your friend does some small things to be noticed. Maybe ask him for a pencil or tell him you like his shirt! She's gotta do the simple stuff, then when she eases her way into a friendship, she should try flirting a little bit more! Then the relationship will slowly progress!

---carli [=

Bex Wheatley said...

Yes, I agree with Carli. I think she should try to become a friend first instead of just trying to become this boy's girlfriend. Relationships usually last longer if they are based on something other than just flirting and "liking" each other, anyway. Also, I would say that this girl should stop worrying about this boy and just have fun. Guys always notice you more when you are being yourself. And finally, the boy doesn't really have any feelings for this other girl. We're all too young to feel anything other than infatuation, sorry.

meggers said...

Aw poor kid!! Ive been in those situatuions many of times, and it sucks!! But dont let it get to her. Middle school is a small part of life, just let her focuss on the positive!!
If she wants more advice, she is more then welcome to talk to me!!